According to this article, Shinichi Nagai, honorary professor of Dokkyo Medical University, found a tendency of the relation between the son/daughter and parents.
It has been since 25 years ago, Students, who are ethargic and can not think deeply, is noticeable.
so he decided to do hearing to their parents. He examine how they take care of their children.
After the analysis, he discovered the fact that the social status and way of bringing up is connected closely.
How to make lassitude student
Children who has high academic achivement or socially successful parents tend to be lassitude students.
This is a intelligent student, but he is autonomous and lassitude about studying.
so he visit his home and met to his fater. This man was celebrity of region.
He ask to his father "When he study hard, you didn't prase him. When he made a mistake, you said 'why can't you do such a easy things' and scold. Right??". And his fater said "yeah that's right".
He can't understand to his son, people can not do somethings, so he scold and say the words like that.
Going with children's vision, Children who can't be admired how hard he/she study, studying is not fun and enjoyable.
Some cases make students of poor academic perfomance
Most possibly case is excessive care or interference... In short, parents don't believe their Children.
Child lives in the situation like this, finally, they don't have voluntary mind, and they can't think deeply.
They have knowledge, but their sensitivity is weak and they doesn't have power to seek and pursuit anything.
Next is hands-off. It's important that parents respect children's will, but it's nature that hands-off children will be slovenly and selfish. They can't wake up early or at the time, don't have breakfast. Finally, they past irregular daily life.
Third is pressure. Chocking household children have been compared each other and others by parents, they tend to be lassitude and cowardly that they can't confront myself to difficulty. They are from the home above-mentioned or household parents brandish authority to them.
Last is the case the child will be like parents. Selfish parents bring selfish child up, nervousness parents do like that, and their children will be same as parents.
If their result sheet is not good, believe that they can do it.When they succeed, please praise them.
When they made a mistake, think why they made that together. Teach them to studying is for you.
author mentioned.
SCREW IT, LET'S DO IT
is a book on Richard Branson owner of Virgin group and Virgin Atlantic.
I take it and read the chapter "4.Challenge Yourself".
First of that, the words is written "If you challenge yourself, you will grow, your life will be change. your outlook will be positive". His first challenge is on the beach and blue sky, not narrow cram school and white roof.
He couldn't swim, but he did bet he would be able to swim or not end of the summer with Dad's sister.
Of course, he bet he will win and he can swim. How about your children?? Why they will do or won't do??
He challenged, but he losed on the beach.
On the way of the home, he saw a river and said "stop the car!!". His fater understood what he want to do and his bet. His mother said "he wants to have another go...". His parents understood to him well.
Everyone around him including his parents encourage him. Finally, he made it.
In my country, some parents especially mothers say bad things about her children.
Some parents especially father doesn't have interest with his children.
However, I think it's important that the parents understand and believe their children.
It has been since 25 years ago, Students, who are ethargic and can not think deeply, is noticeable.
so he decided to do hearing to their parents. He examine how they take care of their children.
After the analysis, he discovered the fact that the social status and way of bringing up is connected closely.
How to make lassitude student
Children who has high academic achivement or socially successful parents tend to be lassitude students.
This is a intelligent student, but he is autonomous and lassitude about studying.
so he visit his home and met to his fater. This man was celebrity of region.
He ask to his father "When he study hard, you didn't prase him. When he made a mistake, you said 'why can't you do such a easy things' and scold. Right??". And his fater said "yeah that's right".
He can't understand to his son, people can not do somethings, so he scold and say the words like that.
Going with children's vision, Children who can't be admired how hard he/she study, studying is not fun and enjoyable.
Some cases make students of poor academic perfomance
Most possibly case is excessive care or interference... In short, parents don't believe their Children.
Child lives in the situation like this, finally, they don't have voluntary mind, and they can't think deeply.
They have knowledge, but their sensitivity is weak and they doesn't have power to seek and pursuit anything.
Next is hands-off. It's important that parents respect children's will, but it's nature that hands-off children will be slovenly and selfish. They can't wake up early or at the time, don't have breakfast. Finally, they past irregular daily life.
Third is pressure. Chocking household children have been compared each other and others by parents, they tend to be lassitude and cowardly that they can't confront myself to difficulty. They are from the home above-mentioned or household parents brandish authority to them.
Last is the case the child will be like parents. Selfish parents bring selfish child up, nervousness parents do like that, and their children will be same as parents.
If their result sheet is not good, believe that they can do it.When they succeed, please praise them.
When they made a mistake, think why they made that together. Teach them to studying is for you.
author mentioned.
SCREW IT, LET'S DO IT
is a book on Richard Branson owner of Virgin group and Virgin Atlantic.I take it and read the chapter "4.Challenge Yourself".
First of that, the words is written "If you challenge yourself, you will grow, your life will be change. your outlook will be positive". His first challenge is on the beach and blue sky, not narrow cram school and white roof.
He couldn't swim, but he did bet he would be able to swim or not end of the summer with Dad's sister.
Of course, he bet he will win and he can swim. How about your children?? Why they will do or won't do??
He challenged, but he losed on the beach.
On the way of the home, he saw a river and said "stop the car!!". His fater understood what he want to do and his bet. His mother said "he wants to have another go...". His parents understood to him well.
Everyone around him including his parents encourage him. Finally, he made it.
In my country, some parents especially mothers say bad things about her children.
Some parents especially father doesn't have interest with his children.
However, I think it's important that the parents understand and believe their children.
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